Love..

Have you waited in the bus-stop for endless hours to meet her when, on the contrary, you used to consider standing idle on any place for even 15 minutes as an idiotic activity? Have you practiced Salsa vigorously just to dance with her, when actually, some months before, you would make fun of your friends who would attend those classes? Have you seen a romantic movie just because she told you that’s her favorite movie, when months before, you used to find it disgusting? Well… these are signs of love…. We do things which we never thought of doing.. The things which used to irate us now have become a part of our life… Mills & Boons is no more a trash novel… Romantic songs have suddenly become music to ears… :)..

The feeling is nice…. But the problem is how long it will sustain… The initial 6-12 months are moments of bliss…. Trying to know each other, understanding each other’s dislikes… Then we get habituated… then we don’t understand some things…then we discuss.. then we disagree.. then we get irritated… then we argue… then we quarrel… then we fight…. If the love is strong, we pass through the tide, else one more in addition to the list of failed relationships…. No, Please don’t think that I am here to lecture upon how to improve your love life.. not at all… I have always been a third party in these things… I have never been involved in any affair…But yes… I have been a witness to many complexities of a relationship which qualifies me to post this article on my blog…

I have always pondered as what would be it like to love someone without any reason….hmm.. yes.. there would be a reason… that would be to see her smile, wish for her happiness, pray for her well being…and if the feeling is mutual, then nothing is so wonderful…. Not being able to talk to each other for the whole day but still making it a point to wish each other good night (and not complaining as to why didn’t you get time to call)… Going on a long walk on a beach holding hands, but not a single word being spoken… yet feeling so content…. Coming to terms with each other’s weaknesses, accepting of what the other is… Isn’t that love..Don’t know…I am yet to explore…