Fate

Fate - supposed power predetermining events”

That’s how Oxford Dictionary defines this complex word. Complex because it is very difficult to comprehend it. We usually use this word in our conversations when nothing goes our way. How many times have we heard this? “It's in my fate. No point talking about it." or "why does fate go against me all the time?".. Fate is the ultimate culprit when it come to failures. Some people blame fate when they face constant obstacles in their way. The question is should we whine the whole life and blame fate for everything? Can't we fight it off?? I had always thought we can get the better of fate and defeat it. No one will dare to stop us when we try to achieve something with determination and dedication. But my recent experiences has taught me that along with these two, there is one more quality one needs to put in his armour. Patience. Fate will test you by making you wait for endless hours. The frustration will reach to a level wherein you will just want to forget your goal and meekly surrender.Patience is the key for survival. It's not easy. Everyone succumbs at some point of time. I am still trying to fight my fate. The goal seems distant. I don't want fate to decide my life. I am the one living. I am supposd to be the one predetermining events. It's my life...